swankypeach

I cannot, cannot, cannot

2011-12-06T16:45:00.001-05:00

Stop listening to this song. Seriously, CANNOT. Gorgeous and just gets me right in the heart/gut. For reals.

Gosh...

2011-12-05T20:41:00.000-05:00

I'm horrible at this blogging business. It doesn't help my internet connection at home has been horrendous and don't really want to work on this while I'm at work (nor do I have the time, honestly) but I promise I've got a killer, killer list of goodies for Swanky's wish list for Christmas and will hopefully catch up soon.

Swanky's 25 Days of Christmas ... it's baaaaack.

2011-12-01T18:33:00.001-05:00

Day 1.

Pretty, pretty little bag to store my toiletries while traveling in a-not-quite-but-almost-ikat-pattern.

John Robshaw Textiles dopp kit. (I'll take Red or Grey, pretty please.)
$45
Available at Cottage Chic in Charlotte.

Annnnnd done.

2011-11-25T07:00:00.001-05:00

I seriously have been trying to nail this for awhile now and I always look like a racoon. This. is. foolproof. Booya. (Can't wait until my buddy Meredith comes over for a dinner and let's try beauty tricks night - this is next on the list! Last time, it was an at-home facial peel... I should probably blog soon about that hilarity.)

Thank you Refinery 29 (by way of A Cup of Jo).

How to Be a Girl: Cat Eyes By Magic! from The Hairpin on Vimeo.

Hi pretty, shiny, thing.

2011-11-15T10:46:00.000-05:00

This is how I want to look for New Year's Eve this year. Sparkly, pretty, festive, fun. Done.
Thank you Ban.Do and Camille Styles.

I think I wanna marry you.

2011-10-28T12:17:00.000-04:00

And that's probably the only time you'll ever hear me quote (sing) Bruno Mars.

I'm trying to make "CF" stand for "Cure Found"...

2011-10-27T14:56:00.001-04:00

Next Friday, Nov. 4, I will be honored by the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation at a special event, Standout Charlotte, recognizing outstanding professionals in my community. I have been selected as part of this group of 15 Standout men and women because of collective passion for community involvement. The group of Standout Charlotteans has been charged with raising $50,000 towards the fight against Cystic Fibrosis — a genetic disease that shortens the lives of those it affects to a median age of approximately 37 years.

Help me celebrate being honored as a 2011 Charlotte Standout (thank you Ted Boyd of Charlotte Center City Partners for the nomination!) by raising funds for the Charlotte chapter of the CF Foundation. My personal goal is to raise $3,500, contributing to the group’s effort.

Here’s the skinny: I have two ways to reach my fundraising goal — sell tickets to the event and solicit donations from my fantastic, giving friends.

Buy your ticket. Get dressed up. Show up to party.
The tickets are $125 (?!?!), yes. But, in return you’ll enjoy dinner from Basil Thai, an open bar and dancing (WHO doesn’t like all of these things??) and $80 of this ticket price is tax-deductable as it’s the amount being donated directly to CFF of Charlotte. I would LOVE to see some familiar faces supporting me and have those same familiar faces (I’m looking at Y-O-U) donating to a worthy organization. (I’ve been challenged to sell at least 10 tickets to the event ... So... I think you know where I’m headed with this.) Go wild – buy an entire table. I need a cheering section!

Skip the ticket. Stay home in your PJ’s. Rent a movie. But, give me (well, CF) some of your money.
Donate $$ in my honor— I’ll take $5 or $5,000 (this beggar isn’t a chooser) just know I need to meet this minimum and I need your help to do it. (And know this money isn’t for ME, it’s for CF research and assistance!) 10 days left, help me get there! Yay!

Check my fundraising page via this link to do either of the above as well as learn more about CF.
You can also purchase or donate by phone by calling CFF Charlotte's office at 704-321-7852.

Get there. Fashion's Night Out 2011 at Neiman Marcus Charlotte

2011-08-30T19:40:00.000-04:00

I'll be styling the Fall Trends presentation — a runway fashion show — at Fashion's Night Out Charlotte next week! It's a free event and open to the public so come join in the fun and be sure and say hi!

Sushi from the Cowfish Burger Sushi Bar and some delish cocktails plus fabulous fall fashion Neiman Marcus style ... need I say more? (Click the invite to RSVP!)

You're the one that I want...

2011-07-17T22:51:00.000-04:00

K.SladeMade Randy Vintage Clutch, $62
Find it {here}

...to tote to cocktails with the girls, accessorize crisp white jeans in the summer and keep my Fresh Sugar rose tinted lip balm safe inside for every shopping trip, dinner date and event I carry you to.

This is where I want to...

2011-07-11T14:07:00.000-04:00

Read stacks of magazines and sip red wine and listen to my iTunes library.

Elle Decor via Matters of Style Blog

What about you? What's your ideal living room?

Save the Date, ya'll.

2011-07-07T13:13:00.000-04:00

Cause it's happening again — and I've already spoken with Kristin at Neiman's about the details.

So, uh, consider yourself booked for Friday, September 8, 2011. Ok?

Photo: Tommy McCart Photography

One of my looks for Fashion's Night Out 2010 at Neiman Marcus. I love this photo and the looks on everyone's faces.

Get in my closet...

2011-07-07T08:03:00.000-04:00

like, now. My other bags want to party with you.

Remi & Dodge Shimmer Clutch, $58, Free People

Birthday Month!

2011-02-13T11:39:00.001-05:00

Yes! I celebrate it for the whole month. So. Sue. Me.

Favorite birthday cards received....

Thanks E McD!

Thanks Steph!

Annnnnd, Ivy, natch.

33 years old .... (gulp)

Birthday celebration dinners, 5.

Halcyon

Polished Nail Bar Gift Certificates received, 4.

Birthday theme song:

"Simple Graces" by Delorean

At least I minded my calories...

2011-01-31T00:14:00.002-05:00

The evidence on my kitchen counter tells me that I enjoyed a funfetti cupcake and a 100 calorie pack of Cheetos when I got home late last night.

Dance Fever.

2011-01-30T23:43:00.000-05:00

I snapped this pic on my phone last week at the start of the Girl Talk show. And it's a solid shot, no?

It was RIDICULOUS fun... full-on dance party for two hours. On. A. Tuesday. Yessssss.

Flirty.

2011-01-12T23:56:00.000-05:00

Prettttty sure that if I did any/all of these things anyone within sight distance might think I had a disorder of sorts.

I have serious cabin fever.

2011-01-11T13:15:00.003-05:00

I'm gonna need human contact soon.

That is all.

The rug, the mirror and the word CHIC.

2011-01-10T13:58:00.008-05:00

Meet my new rug, purchased last Sunday at Slate Interiors.

I'm thinking this peekaboo clear coffee table from PB2 will be the next purchase... but I think I wanna bring an expert — the fabulous Emily A. Clark — first before I get any further with this interior design stuff.

And this is my Slate wish list ...

**Apologies for crappy iPhone photos.

Swanky's snow day tunes.

2011-01-10T13:39:00.003-05:00

Snow day today! Everyone is off of work, the snow is still falling and it's beautiful and so peaceful!

Some of the tunes that are on repeat and replay for today while I sit inside my warm place and do some serious catching up on stuff like (ahem) blogging, laundry, cleaning, catching up on personal emails and freelance projects. (There is talk of friends gathering for a snow playdate at the Met this afternoon so I'm excited!)

I think the name of the album is genius — "Passive Me, Agressive You" — by The Naked and Famous and I pretty much rock out to "Punching in a Dream" daily. Makes for a good running track, too.

Rizza Cabrera has a Regina Spektor-ish sounding voice (IMO) and covers songs from Coldplay to the Beatles to the Killers and even (gasp!) Justin Beiber. I'm digging her "Things I Wish I Wrote" cd ... favorite track is probably her cover of Kings of Leon's "Use Somebody" and has been on repeat since ohhhhh about the first of December.

Added "Bullfighter Jacket" by the Miniature Tigers right before I ran the half-marathon and I'm glad I did. Good tune from their FORTRESS album that helped me get through somewhere between miles 9 and 10. Aaaaaand I'm gonna go see them in Columbia in February (Em + Jess are hopefully coming with... ladies, don't make me go by myself...)

Oh, and this little ditty of a video that is beyond-words-adorable (I think I posted on FB last week...) If I ever have kids I seriously want them to be this cool.

And apologies for my prolonged absence. I always feel weird apologizing for not blogging, btw. Like, really, you've been just sitting on the edges of your seat waiting on Swanky. (I seriously do not think I'm that self-important. At all.) I've just been really busy... with running a half-marathon, starting a new job, running, holiday parties and events and traveling, running, mending my hurting heart, training for a full marathon (training that may have ended yesterday as the knee pain I'm experiencing is beyond excruciating) and still unpacking, sorting, organizing and decorating my new place. Oh, and did I mention I've been running? :) Phew.

Merry, Merry Peaches!

2010-12-25T15:15:00.003-05:00

top center and bottom right photos: Stephanie Flury Photography
bottom left photo: Amy Free Photography

Swanky's 25 Days of Christmas: Day 24

2010-12-02T17:10:00.001-05:00

J. Crew Tissue V-Neck Classic Tees — I could wear one every single day... good thing there are quite a few colors.
Converse Chuck Taylor All Star — White is my go-to.
Jo Malone Blue Agava & Cacao Perfume — Swanky's signature scent. Hands down my fave of all time.
Benefit Bad Gal Lash Mascara — I never leave the house without at least mascara and this is my only choice.
J. Brand Skinny denim — Just the right shade of blue, tight-fitting (without being street corner tight) and versatile enough to wear with heels, flats or tucked into any of my seven pairs of winter boots!

Love the creativity here, ya'll.

2010-12-02T13:10:00.003-05:00

Watch the full video HERE. Love it.

Swanky's 25 Days of Christmas: Day 25

2010-12-01T13:14:00.000-05:00

Bring on the books, cause I'm still decorating my place and I'm a serious sucker for coffee table books on art, fashion or decor and interior design. Added bonus if any of those books have Kelly Wearstler's name on them....

Santa, please, please place these finds on my coffee table this year:

Downtown Chic: Designing Your Dream Home from Wreck to Ravishing, $45 (I almost bought this one last night while shopping at Isabella with E McD.)

Hue, $49.97

Food, Fashion, Friends: Recipes and Styling for Unforgettable Parties

The Gospel According to CoCo Chanel: Life Lessons from the World's Most Elegant Woman, $19.95

Vintage French Interiors: Inspiration From the Antique Shops and Flea Markets of France, $34.95

December 1. Yikes.

2010-12-01T13:12:00.000-05:00

24 days until Christmas. 30 days until New Year's Eve. And exactly two months until my 33rd birthday.

ALSO, this December 31 will the FIVE year birthday of this darling blog, Peaches!

As tradition holds, today I kick off Swanky's 25 Days of Christmas with gift ideas for me, for you, for us. for all.

Let's do this.

Read + repeat. That's what I'm doing.

2010-11-30T23:45:00.002-05:00

via Keep Calm Gallery

I'll take size 8, please.

2010-11-26T12:30:00.004-05:00

It's free shipping today at Toms.com and these are the two pairs I've had a crush on for quite awhile now.

Gold Glitters: These are like a party for your feet, no?

Black Canvas Wedges: I hear these are crazy comfy.

SwankyPeach + SwankyPooch Holiday Card Photoshoot.

2010-11-25T18:30:00.000-05:00

Last weekend my dear friend Steph (who's also turned into quite the photographer for kids, families and pets, p.s.) and I planned out the best holiday card photo yet for me and the pup. I wanted something that showcased my personality and personal style, the importance of Honey in my life (no hubby, kids or fam of my own right now but her) and my new place. Add a holiday doormat, my favorite skinny jeans and sparkly J. Crew heels to annoying Honey by wrapping her in scarves, Christmas Tree lights and a tight sweater and it was quite the Saturday morning and photo shoot. A HUGE thank you to Steph for her patience with Miss SwankyPooch aaaaand her ideas and fab photog skills. (Steph + I met on Craigslist before I moved to Charlotte almost four years ago — she was my first roomie — and I'm so glad we've stayed such great friends!!)

Can you take a stab at trying to figure out which of these photos will be showing up in your mailbox over the Holidays? (And tell me that windowsill shot doesn't just melt your heart like butter because it certainly does mine...)

ThankfulPeach.

2010-11-25T16:21:00.004-05:00

I have so so so so so much to be thankful for. I have no doubt that I am entirely and completely B L E S S E D. So, I'll take a stab at listing all of the things I have to be thankful for (Lord knows I'll probably leave something or someone out and apologies just in case.) I have supportive, faith-filled parents that love each other dearly, love me and my brother and will do anything and everything for me/us. I have incredibly amazing, supportive, caring, hilarious and fun friends. After almost a year of unemployment I've been offered a job and it's such a perfect fit for me it's eerily scary yet insanely exciting at the same time. I look forward to submitting my official acceptance. (Eeeeeeek!) I moved into the most perfect condo in one of my favorite neighborhoods in Charlotte last month — the kind of place that all of my furniture fits perfectly in, a place that's historic with tons of character and everytime I walk through the door I feel HOME and it's MINE. I am healthy. I am strong enough to be training for a half-marathon and fully enjoy all of my training runs whether they are 3 miles or 10. God has blessed me with creative talents, writing talents and the ability to make friends with just about anyone. My family is healthy. The only real true love that I have ever known is what I feel for my pup (SwankyPooch, duh.) but I get to experience it every. single. day. I don't need anything (but there are plenty of things I want ... so I'm certainly no holier than thou.) I genuinely enjoy life — I love the laughter, the emotions, the experiences, my friends, the music, the food, the fun. I have sight and I can hear. I have an education. I have food, a warm place to sleep and running water. My man upstairs (God, obvi) continuously looks out for me, protects me and guides my path every single day — He meets my needs and makes my dreams come true. Bottom line: I. AM. GRATEFUL and BLESSED. 100 percent. And if I ever for a second seem to act as though I might have forgotten that ... remind me of this post, would ya?

Happy Thanksgiving, Peaches. I am thankful for you, too! (Thanks for reading my blog!)

It's Wedding Day for Jana + Dave!

2010-11-20T09:04:00.002-05:00

Best Save the Date. EVER. (And I don't like photo save the dates, but I L O V E this one.)

Best wishes to you two! I'm sure your fancy day is going to be beyond fabulous, Miss Jana.

Ummmm, yes, puhlease!

2010-11-16T17:13:00.003-05:00

I got chills + they multiplied.

2010-11-16T16:48:00.006-05:00

While watching this video. Incredible.

I would have loved to be one of the people at Heathrow that day to experience this in person. Wow.

Get schooled by poole.

2010-11-16T11:02:00.004-05:00

Tomorrow night.
Poole shop.
5 to 7 p.m.

Customer appreciation night at a fave Charlotte boutique.
Like this fun bag? (I do!) Meet the designer, Meredith German, and you can tell her how much you love it.
Not convinced yet? What about cocktails and 20 percent off your entire purchase?

Yeahhhhh, now you're convinced. See ya there.

pssst. don't go cruising around Philips Place hunting for the store because a few months ago they relocated to the second floor of CAPITOL. (That makes another reason to stop by if you haven't been in — incredible space.)

Blissful Wishes Ball.

2010-11-15T14:21:00.006-05:00

Gala night for Wish Upon A Wedding came and went on Friday and it was too much fun. (I have a mini blister on my right foot from all the dancing that I did!)

Getting dolled up to go to the Ritz with the ladies and raise some money for a great cause does a great Friday night make!

Naturally, my lovely lady Kariann at Neiman Marcus did my make-up. I showed her a pic of my Kay Unger gown and said I wanted to go with the "old hollywood" look with bright red lips. And she (as always) made me look fabulous!

With Amy (from the WOW Factor Cakes) and Chris Craparo

With one of my dates — Miss Carrie Ann

With both of my dates! Kate and Carrie Ann

In the space for wedding date, I wrote "funny"

2010-11-12T07:26:00.010-05:00

I won a gift certificate to Three Little Birds last night at the Bella Bridesmaid + Erin McDermott After Work Party. (Btw, when I completed the entry form there was a space for wedding date — my response was "funny".)

I'm pretty excited as I just had my logo redesigned (and I'm sure you've noticed, SwankyPeach too) so perhaps I'll be putting it towards my new business cards or some logo stationery.

If not that, my holiday cards wouldn't be a bad idea, either. My dear friend (and budding photog) Stephanie Flury and I plan to meet in the next week or so and discuss ideas for my photos ...

Last year's cards featured this fun photo.

She is obviously NOT amused.

What do you think SwankyPooch and I should do for this year's cards?

E McD. She means the world to me.

2010-11-11T12:36:00.001-05:00

And it's her birthday, today.

I've only become close with E this last year and I can't tell you how much I can't believe I had to wait 32 years to meet this incredibly giving, honest, thoughtful, witty, supportive and fun, fabulous friend?!

This year has had it's crazy roller coaster moments and E has been there for me more than anyone. She's laughed with me, cheered with me, hugged me when I cried, encouraged me, shopped with me ... and so very much more. (I'm pretty sure she cornered a certain fella one night and told him he should ask me out... something along those lines, anyhow.) I can only hope I've been as good of a friend as she has been and as bright of a spot in her life as she has been in mine.

Here's to you, E..

A HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY and cheers to many more years of fun for us and that trip to Europe ....

Join me tonight...

2010-11-11T11:24:00.004-05:00

At an after-work party at Bella Bridesmaid in Charlotte for a glass of wine and some shopping. (Seriously, if you don't like wine and shopping I don't even know how we're friends.)

This party isn't just for brides and their bridesmaids either, y'all. Bella will have discontinued dresses and samples on sale (and for an additional 15% off, too!) that anyone can purchase. With lines like Lula Kate and Alix + Kelly I'm pretty confident you can find something fun and flirty to wear to a few of your holiday parties. (I'm personally hoping to find a Two Birds dress on that rack...)

Aaaand you get to meet the designer, Erin, of Erin McDermott Jewelry and shop her fabulous jewelry collection. (I pretty much wear my joyful teardrop earrings every. single. day.) Enough said.

So, you'll be there, right??

Back to work, ya'll.

2010-11-11T10:17:00.007-05:00

Alright, Peaches. I'm back. Good gracious, life has been a bit hectic with the move, unpacking, organizing and trying to get caught up on all of my projects. Phew.

I wanted to share a few behind-the-scenes pics I snapped on my iPhone during yesterday's engagement session shoot with Kristin and Aaron Byrum. It was the first time I've worked with the husband-and-wife photography team and they were SO much fun! Aaron is beyond nice, humorous and witty. Kristin has this adorable southern accent, the sweetest most welcoming smile. I can't wait for another opportunity to work with this pair — they are darling...

Just as darling as the couple — Miss Mary Sherrill and Luke Ware — who I L O V E. I don't want to go into too much detail as I'd rather save it for the post with the pro photos from the Byrum's but here's a few of my faves ...

All dressed up at the Mint Uptown, where they will have their reception.

Too, too cute at the Green Uptown.

If anyone catches a football in heels and a skirt, it's Mary Sherrill.

Thank you Junebug Weddings ...

2010-11-08T09:10:00.003-05:00

for sharing our J. Major's Bridal (who has a fab new website, by the way) fabulous bridal fashion photo shoot on the PHOTOBUG blog last week!

The photos are by Drea + Casey of Cunningham Photo Artists, gowns were Romona Keveza, Amy Kuschel, Lazaro, Martina Liana and Claire Pettibone (that gorgeous Sky Between the Branches gown) all from J. Major's and hair and make-up by Kymm McLean of Who's the Fairest and Mandi English of M. Style Studio. The shoot was at Butter in the North Carolina Music Factory.

Always thrilled when fellow bloggers share our work, so thanks again Junebug Weddings!

Why I've been so distant...

2010-11-03T19:29:00.002-04:00

It's not you. It's me. And moving boxes.

I promise to be back A S A P!

Bridal Styling: J. Major's Bridal Ad Campaign shoot

2010-10-29T09:58:00.001-04:00

Ohhhh my am I feeling the love from Cunningham Photo Artists AND L O V I N G seeing the shots we captured at our shoot for J. Major's new advertising campaign at Butter Charlotte. Still beyond thrilled and loving C.J. from J. Major's for hiring me to style the shoot. We used some fabulous dresses from Claire Pettibone, Lazaro, Amy Kuschel and Romona Keveza with the mad hair skills of Mandi English and incredible make-up talent by Kymm McLean of Who's the Fairest?

Enjoy the fabulousness on the Cunningham's blog, here.

Dear Anthropologie...

2010-10-27T22:00:00.002-04:00

I saw this chair in your fitting room while shopping with a client the other day and it took every single ounce of self-control not to grab it, throw it over my shoulder and run as fast as I could outside to my little Honda Accord.

Yes, I'm implying I wanted to steal it. But I didn't.

Go me.

SwankyStyle: Blissful Wishes Ball.

2010-10-27T13:42:00.003-04:00

The Wish Upon A Wedding, the Carolinas Chapter annual fundraising gala, Blissful Wishes Ball is Friday, Nov. 12 at the Ritz-Carlton, Charlotte. This is one of my ideas for the perfect look for the evening.

Blissful Wishes Ball. by swankypeach featuring kate spade shoes

Issa Silk one-shoulder gown, $665
carly at kate spade, $298
Feather Clutch Bag, 35 GBP
Tasha Multi Row Crystal Bracelet, $48
Kristin Morris Jewelry | Collections | Vintage, $400

I would like this in my new kitchen.

2010-10-27T09:59:00.002-04:00

I'm moving (yet again but for good, hopefully) this weekend to an adorable place about a mile from where I am now. And this AHeirloom cutting board would be absolutely perf for the SwankyPeach kitch, no?

And the peach, well that's just a nice touch.

I can't stop watching this Hitched video.

2010-10-25T22:35:00.001-04:00

And tapping my feet and nodding my head to the music, too. And since I'm using my (rookie) video editing skills on a few projects of my own, right now. It's inspiration in it's purest form.

Hitched from Shark Pig on Vimeo.

Check out some of Shark Pig's other vids, too. They seriously capture some of the most fun looking weddings!

Ouch.

2010-10-25T21:54:00.002-04:00

Last week was so busy it smacked me in the face ... oh, wait, no... that was the sidewalk on Fifth street during Saturday morning's training run (a six miler) for my upcoming Thunder Road half marathon....

Let's re-enact the accident, shall we?

Mile 5. Running on Fifth Street. Manhole cover, 1; Melissa, 0. Busted knee, head and nose. Long, painful almost two mile walk home from there.

I trip and think, uh-oh, I'm going down. And I do. Right knee, left knee, hands (lovely little road rash), right shoulder and the last to hit, my head. Ouch. And dammit. I only had one mile left to go.

I sit up to see three fellas running to make sure I'm okay. (Did I mention I conveniently fell right outside Presbyterian Hospital?) I tell them I'm fine, just need to sit for a second before I stand up. I realize my knee is scuffed and bleeding at this point.

Unknown man: "Ma'am are you ok? Do you want to go inside and have someone check you out?"
Swanky: "No, I'm fine. Just a scuffed knee. I'll be okay."
(Unknown man #2 is just staring at me like he's never seen anyone trip and fall before.)
Unknown man: "Ma'am. Your nose and head are bleeding, are you sure you are okay? We should go into the hospital."
Swanky: "Yes, I'm fine. If you could just get me some water, I'll be good."

So while I wait for him to bring me some water, I decide it's as good a time as any to stretch. On the sidewalk. On Fifth Street. (Also with a bleeding nose and face that I was obviously unaware of.)

He comes back. I clean up (or at least think I did) and tell him thanks and start to walk the rest of the way home. I pass Hot Running Guy Number One, no eye contact. I pass Hot Running Guy Number Two who raises his eyebrows when he sees me. I smile and keep walking. (Jerk.) I pass two moms with children in strollers on a power walk, I smile and say hello (while rocking out to my iPod) and one of them has this strange "dear god/what the hell" look on her face. (Look, I know I'm sweaty and perhaps a little dirty but I can't look that bad, lady.)

When I finally get home I immediately head to the mirror to survey the damage and when I see my face — eeeep! It's no wonder that mother looked at me that way. I have blood everywhere... it looks like I've been attacked!

All is pretty much fine now, I do have a really scratched up knee, a scuff on my forehead and an Owen Wilson looking swollen nose but there are no broken bones and I resumed running with a 5-miler today so I'm okay. Pretty much just another funny Swanky story to tell, now!

I have mentioned that my middle name is Grace, right?

Fashion: Coolest classy bangles ever. EVER.

2010-10-25T16:06:00.002-04:00

No Sleep Till Brooklyn Idiom Bangle, $78, Kate Spade

They reference a Beastie Boys song. Solid.

Annnnnnd the inside is engraved with "Turn the tables." Genius.

Fashion styling: Cocktails with the girls.

2010-10-25T15:56:00.001-04:00

It started with this Tibi silk chiffon dress. And then I found this French Connection Party Stud belt. So, of course I had to finish off the look.

Cocktails with the girls. by swankypeach featuring a waist belt

Tibi Printed silk-chiffon dress, $350
Wolford Velvet De Luxe 50 Tights, $42
Diane von Furstenberg Ruched suede ankle boots, $395
Miu Miu Leather cross-body bag, $995
Images of Early 20th c. Large Onyx Ring - The Three Graces, $745
1870s Long French Jet Drop Earrings, New 14K Wires : Erie Basin..., $485
Silk Cashmere Infinity Scarf, $119
French Connection 'Party' Stud Belt, 30 GBP

Currently on repeat...

2010-10-22T11:15:00.004-04:00

Someone surprised me with these two CD's on Tuesday night when I got back from NYC and both have been on repeat every day since. Good stuff.

Everything is Fine.

2010-10-22T11:11:00.001-04:00

I picked up this Colette tote this weekend in NYC at Opening Ceremony. It's perfect for my laptop and notebook. And it makes me feel the slightest bit French. (Although I'm not even close. Meh.)

Bridal Styling: Hayden Olivia Ad

2010-10-22T11:00:00.001-04:00

A big, big THANK YOU to Heather Batt from Hayden Olivia Bridal for the styling credit for her new ad! I found it flipping through the latest issue of Weddings Unveiled last week. One of Cunningham Photo Artists fab photos from our Style Me Pretty Inspiration to Reality shoot — a shoot that was a collaboration last year between Ivy Robinson, Hayden Olivia Bridal, Cunningham Photo Artists, Salutations Fine Stationery, Aubre Zerebnick, Kymm McLean, Mandi English, and The Wow Factor Cakes.

Fashion: Kate Spade London

2010-10-21T14:13:00.001-04:00

Three reasons I love this video.

1. Brightly painted striped stairs.

2. Girlband rocker chicks wearing Kate Spade and red lipstick.

3. Yellow mittens that say "Taxi" on the palm.

Bridal Fashion: Bridal Market in NYC

2010-10-21T10:22:00.001-04:00

This past weekend (and Monday and Tuesday) at Bridal Market/Fashion Shows in NYC (Wedding Channel Couture Shows, the International Bridal Market and independent designer runway shows) was a whirlwind of fun, dresses, champagne, cheek kisses, hellos, taxi receipts, subway rides, delicious meals, swag bags, laughter with friends and colleagues, new connections, tea, wine, shopping and just plain ridiculous fun. I'm digging out but will begin working on my blogs of each collection asap!

Can't wait to share the deets!

My long awaited ...

2010-10-13T11:34:00.003-04:00

Photo Credit

Date with NYC ...

Happens this weekend. Beyond excited.

I'll be hanging with my sister from another mother, Diva (Erin Elise) through Sunday and then staying my darling Tim Olson while hitting up bridal fashion shows and parties, dining and wishing I could shop but unfortunately will only be doing window shopping. Meh. At least I'll be in NYC for four days!

Thrilled to know....

2010-10-12T08:26:00.003-04:00

Photo from Madewell

Fall Fields Romper, $110, Madewell.com

that my romper obsession doesn't have to come to a screeching halt because the season's change. (Except in Charlotte, they still haven't. Today's high is 86. Squid.) A FALL romper? Yes, please. Now.

Swanky Runs to...

2010-10-08T02:44:00.007-04:00

Since I'm training for my first Half-Marathon*...

I start every race (usually 5k's ... and I've run one 8k) and every run with this song....

When I need to slow my pace ...

And along the way, I usually play this ...

And when I need to really kick it in gear? I find this on my playlist:
(And I think about cruising in the BMW with the top down with my girl Ivy.)

*I'm running with a group of friends ... Tom, Bryan + E Mc D, Amy + Chris, Jeff, Renee, Denny... Kate and Lauren said they will be in charge of preparing our post-race day brunch.... naaaaaatch.

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Weekend Ahead: Charlotte Observer Local Blogging Panel

2010-10-07T16:37:00.001-04:00

As a lifestyle blogger (swankypeach and bride + groom) I've been asked to speak on a panel at this weekend's Hyper-local Publishing and Blogging 101 seminar sponsored by the Charlotte Observer.

I'm looking forward to sharing information, tips and knowledge (I hope I know as much as attendees expect me to!) with guests and meeting other bloggers in Charlotte. I hear I'll be in the company of other speakers like Rick Thames of the Charlotte Observer's site, an old-friend Jarvis Halliday (we're both from Augusta, Ga. and University of South Carolina grads) of Grown People Talking, and the fellas behind CLTblog.com so I'm definitely looking forward to it!

It's a sold-out event — for a mere $10 it's well worth a few hours on your Saturday — and runs from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Observer building. A big thanks to Alicia Roberts for asking me to participate!

Will you be attending? If so, leave a comment here but also be sure to come say hello on Saturday!

Blissful Wishes Ball, The Wish Upon A Wedding the Carolinas Gala

2010-10-05T10:04:00.003-04:00

Save the Date! The Carolinas Chapter of Wish Upon A Wedding, Blissful Wishes Ball

A perfect excuse to get dressed up for dinner, dancing and a really great cause! Tickets are now available by clicking here. You can also make a donation through this link should you not be able to attend.

The Blissful Wishes Ball is a gala celebration benefiting the Carolinas Chapter of Wish Upon a Wedding, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to provide weddings & vow renewals for couples facing terminal illness and other serious life-altering circumstances, regardless of sexual orientation. By giving the gifts of dream weddings & vow renewals, Wish Upon a Wedding is able to grant some of the most intimate and heartfelt wishes of these people's lives, and help them share their wedding day with close family members.

Celebrity wedding and event planner Sasha Souza will be in attendance at the Charlotte gala and tickets are available to sit specifically at her table!

The chapter is also accepting silent auction donations and corporate sponsorships.

A first-year event that you will NOT want to miss!

On Repeat. Andy McKee.

2010-10-05T09:39:00.002-04:00

"All Laid Back and Stuff"

I have terrific friends.

2010-09-10T00:15:00.004-04:00

Who I have terrific text message convos with like this one from tonight. (She's referring to tomorrow night's Fashion's Night Out event at Neiman Marcus Charlotte.)

E Mc D: "T-1 day until you are OFFICIALLY the best, most amazing & phenomenally swankiest style-goddess in all of the Queen City (and beyond). So strap on your Loubs and grab yourself a Prada number, Melissa Lamkin is gonna ROCK OUT."

Swanky: "I love you. Period."

E Mc D: "Ditto. Exclamation point!"

Be a Peach like E, wish me luck I'm so excited!

Fashion Styling: Fashion's Night Out.

2010-09-07T21:02:00.001-04:00

The sign makes it real. I saw this today when I was in the store pulling together and styling my looks. I'm beyond excited to be a part of this!

The store has over 400 R.S.V.P.'s already! But it's not too late for you to attend this free event for Fashion's Night Out. Email RSVPCharlotte@NeimanMarcus.com. More details below...

My splendid Sundays.

2010-09-06T13:52:00.004-04:00

Baked brie, fruit, cheese and wine!

I have a standing Sunday night date with the darling E McD. It's 1/2 price wine night at Upstream and we sip wine, giggle and talk jewels, men, fashion, and life.

Ironically enough on Labor Day weekend she had a ton of work to do (finishing up some bridal jewelry orders and we needed to talk about her upcoming look book shoot with the fabulous Amy Free) so we decided we'd take the date indoors to her place last night.

The occasion tonight: nom-noms, wine and jewels.

Sukie and Honey meet for the first time.

And then they sit in separate rooms and stare at each other.
How cute is this pic, really?

Naturally we started chatting girl stuff ... E's skin always looks incredible and I keep meaning to ask her what makeup she uses. She runs upstairs and comes back with a small handful of Giorgio Armani and Bobbi Brown goodies.

I hate wearing a lot of makeup; a little bronzer and some mascara and really I'm all set. I don't usually wear foundation (or even tinted moisturizer) because I always feel like its clogging up my pores or it just makes my face feel sticky and icky. So when E tells me that all she really wears is the Giorgio Armani Face Fabric and Bronzer, I smile, grab them both and head to the bathroom mirror. And then I fell in love. The Face Fabric is so light, it made my skin look even and SO SO soft and it has SPF, too. Loved it.

I'll be picking some up tomorrow when I'm at Neiman's pulling together my looks for the Style Maven Contest at Fashion's Night Out!

SwankyBeach Cruiser.

2010-09-05T13:32:00.000-04:00

Guess who's dreaming of a beach cruiser bike in peach, natch?

Especially on holiday weekend days with weather as glorious as today's is.

Fashion's Night Out in Charlotte next week.

2010-09-01T12:29:00.000-04:00

I'll be competing for the title of Charlotte's Style Maven at Neiman Marcus Charlotte's Fashion's Night Out event next Friday, September 10th.

Along with our "project runway style" styling competition, there will a beer tasting in the men's department downstairs, delicious nom-noms from Delectables by Holly, food from 15 North Roadside Kitchen and a cake tasting with Amy Craparo of the Wow Factor Cakes!

So be a peach (and fellas you're invited too — did you see the part about the beer tasting?) and come check it out, have some drinks, taste some food and CHEER ME ON!

Reason 15,276 that I love J. Crew.

2010-08-30T07:51:00.003-04:00

E McD sent this to me via email (at 6:46 a.m., natch) and I must say that watching a handsome man in all of these handsome clothes is absolutely the way I should be starting every Monday, no??

Hey, hey! That's a good lookin'....

2010-08-26T22:58:00.007-04:00

shirt. (And fellas, in those Ledbury shirts!)

I wonder if either of these hotties are single?

My love for menswear runs deep. Real deep. That Billy Reid look (preppy-but-not-too-buttoned-up-with-just-enough-cool) makes Swanky swoon. And so does Ledbury. Tailored shirts from two (handsome) fellas in Richmond, V-A who's story is worth a read. My faves (in this order) ...

Boxcheck Worker in Red

The Blue Windowpane Worker

The Plum Royal Bengal

Now, if only I could get them to let me handle their PR...

Swanky is beach bound.

2010-08-12T23:41:00.002-04:00

{Katie + Michael}

The beach is one of my favorite, favorite places in the W O R L D. And I'm thrilled to be headed to Holden Beach this weekend for my lovebug Miss Katie's (pictured above with her fiancee Michael) bachelorette soiree.

Bring on the giggles, the cocktails, the sand between my toes and the sun on my face; after my last few jam-packed weeks I'm SO looking forward to this.

Pics when I'm back!

Just because cards are just awesome.

2010-08-02T17:30:00.006-04:00

I received this card a few weeks back and it's quite possibly my most favorite piece of mail this entire year.

For multiple reasons...

1.) This card is hilarious. (Can you even imagine telling Martha she was trash?)

2.) It came from the fabulous Erin. (I call her E McD W) and this is spot-on with our humor.
(Pssst, I tried to take a picture of her eating froyo out of the sample cups at Yoforia last week and she looked like she was going to cut me.)

3.) It was completely unexpected. Nothing beats a surprise "just because" card. Ever. (I love surprises!)

4.) How insanely awesome is her handwriting? It's so freaking cool it could be a font. It's own font.

Barenaked Ladies concert with the ladies.

2010-07-31T12:37:00.006-04:00

{Catie, Julie, Swanky + Alyse}

We sat on the lawn. The weather was perfect. We drank cold beers with coozies to keep them cool. We danced. We sang. We laughed and snapped some pics. In other words — a fabulous Friday night.

{Swanky, Mary Sue + Jenny}

These two ladies — Mary Sue (middle) and Jenny (right) are my fellow, NYC fashion expats. Jenny owns Plume Boutique, MS works with a showroom. And we might have some ideas cooking ... just fyi.

P.S. MS writes this fab little ditty of a blog, then you can check out here.

Crafts for cocktails.

2010-07-30T00:27:00.003-04:00

Via The Crafts Dept @ MarthaStewart.com

I think that E McD W and I should host a cocktail party just so we can have arts + crafts and make these!

Social Media Nerd. (with a sweet tooth.)

2010-07-28T11:16:00.003-04:00

Because I think that these twitter and facebook cookies from I am Baker are #absolutelyadorbs.

Public Relations: Girls Night Out featured in Vivanista

2010-07-26T06:06:00.001-04:00

A big thanks to Vivanista for their recent article about the Girls Night Out event I was recently involved with benefitting the Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte.

You can read the full article here.

Bridal: Real Bride, Stephanie Williams Tarbet

2010-07-25T09:33:00.000-04:00

Stephanie Williams and Travis Tarbet

“Melissa has an impeccable sense of style; so when it came time for my wedding day, I knew I had to have her by my side at all times. She was such an asset to have on my special day as she helped me, my mom, my bridesmaids, the florist and the photographer. Melissa made everything work like clock work. She began steaming the dresses (to perfection) early that morning and did not stop the rest of the day.

The bride and her bridesmaids.

She styled all of the wedding party (the most perfect bows you've ever seen) as well as me. Melissa came prepared and thought of everything! I was calm and collected during the entire "getting ready" process because Melissa had everything we could have possibly needed. She was also a huge help to my photographer {Regina Holder} when it came to capturing the perfect shots of my gown, the dress, my shoes, veil and other important parts from that day.

Tying bows on the bridesmaids.

The bride dancing with the adorable flower girl.

Six 'maids a waiting ...

Brides have enough to stress about the day of the wedding. With Melissa's help, she made my big day so relaxing and enjoyable. She stepped in and did everything making that day much easier on me and all parties involved. I am forever grateful to Melissa for her amazing sense of style, styling ability and her dedication to make me the most beautiful (and relaxed) bride I could've possibly been.

Brides who are considering using Melissa for their special day should not hesitate. She is someone who is extremely talented at her trade and an asset to have around on any bride's wedding day!” —Stephanie Williams Tarbet, married June 28, 2009, St. Simons Island, Georgia

Afternoon snack.

2010-07-20T14:51:00.001-04:00

Hellloooo handsome. Sigh....

My middle name is Grace.

2010-07-20T14:29:00.003-04:00

This little gem showed up in my email inbox today from an old friend, Liz.

Grace means more than gifts. In grace something is transcended, once and for all overcome. Grace happens in spite of something; it happens in spite of separateness and alienation. Grace means that life is once again united with life, self is reconciled with self. Grace means accepting the abandoned one. Grace transforms fate into a meaningful vocation. It transforms guilt to trust and courage. The word grace has something triumphant in it.

- Yrjo Kallinen

It's deep, thought-provoking and intelligent. And I need to meditate and think about this one for awhile. Can I live this out?

Yeah, that's right. Kirk Cameron + I, we go way back.

2010-07-16T00:16:00.004-04:00

This week this photo was posted on my FaceBook wall.

And this photo has provided much entertainment.

She says no squeaks.

2010-07-15T15:38:00.003-04:00

SwankyPooch can destroy a toy (especially one with a squeaker inside) in less than three minutes. Tops.

And then she looks at me with that sweet face, like, whaaaat?

Dear NYC...

2010-07-13T00:02:00.004-04:00

I think I miss you.

Alot.

I would like to ask if it's okay if we go on a date sometime this Fall, perhaps? I'm thinking dinner and wine at Da Nico (on the back patio, preferably), a leisurely stroll (and probably a run at some point, too) through Central Park, an egg roll at Jing Du, Sushi from Haru, brunch at Penelope and a delicious, gooey cookie from City Market would be fab. Oh, and let's add a side of Spice and a macaroni and cheese plate from Chat 'n Chew, too.

Let me know what you think and if your schedule is open.

Love,
Me

Happy Stephanie Birthday Day!

2010-07-12T12:56:00.003-04:00

HAPPY HAPPY Birthday to Stephanie today!

She was my first roommate when I moved to Charlotte over three years ago (we met on Craigslist, ha!) and has an adorable place in Myers Park. She's off celebrating her actual birthday in style on vacation in St. Simon's Island — we celebrated with her at Selwyn on Friday night — but she's a dear friend who always makes me laugh out loud (via text, email and facebook!) and I just want her to know that I hope she has the greatest birthday today!

Can't wait to see you when you get back, Miss. And you better be tan. *wink

(And I should probably learn how to take better photos on my iPhone, too.)

My blue heaven.

2010-07-10T16:08:00.003-04:00

A red velvet cupcake (uhhhh, red velvet anything, really) from Polka Dot Bake Shop and a cold Blue Moon.

Toss in a side of Selwyn Pub and a friend's birthday celebration and you've got quite the Charlotte Friday night.

Heating things up in the kitchen.

2010-07-09T12:06:00.003-04:00

Because everyone needs a conveniently labeled place in the kitchen cabinet for their blow torch located directly above the conveniently labeled spot for Old Bay.

(This photo was taken in my friend Jenn's kitchen last night at girl's night ... the homeowners prior to her purchase of the house really liked organization, apparently. And making some serious creme brulee, I guess.)

Art. Tee. Crepes.

2010-07-07T12:49:00.002-04:00

Julie, Molly Mc. and I headed out to the NoDa Gallery Crawl last Friday night. The weather was incredibly nice, it was a holiday weekend and most importantly, Bird, boyfriend of Molly G. was hosting an opening night reception for his incredible (yes, you HAVE to go check it out!) art exhibit at Green Rice Gallery . Titled "AOTEAROA" the work is inspired by his recent seven month trip to New Zealand. The photo that inspired this is inside the painting. (Can you find it?)

And how about a close-up of the quote?

Okay, that's all you get... get to Green Rice and see the rest for yourself. Now. (Don't miss "the wishing tree" ... it gave me chills it was so beautiful.)

Aaaand since we were waiting on a table at the Crepe Cellar (one of my top three fave restaurants in Charlotte, p.s.) we wandered over to the Rat's Nest when we left Green Rice and lookie, lookie what Julie found for Swanky. (And, yes, it does say #1 Granddaughter.)

An entertaining email.

2010-06-25T12:23:00.005-04:00

This may have been intended for I'm Just Sayin' but I think it's humorous enough for it's own post.

1.) It's two of my dear friends in Augusta that I've known since I was about 15 years old.
2.) Above-mentioned dear friends are both now mothers.
3.) It's refreshing to know they are still equally as funny as they used to be.

From: ashley d.
Date: Thu, 24 Jun 2010 10:50 p.m.
To: SwankyPeach
Subject: Conversation

This began as a "remember when" conversation while we were having lunch today.... No alcohol involved. Pinky swear.

SFM: What do you mean you ran over him?

BTG: With a four-wheeler. We ran him over with a four-wheeler. Over and over again. We thought he was a log. And we were jumping it.

SFM: Did he die?

BTG: He was too drunk to die.

SFM: Was he mad?

BTG: Not till the next day. Then we gave him some beer and he was okay. His wife was pissed though.

Public Relations: Wish Upon A Wedding The Carolinas Launch Party

2010-06-25T10:43:00.001-04:00

Wish Upon a Wedding the Carolinas Chapter President Ivy Robinson, along with our first wish recipients, Yolanda Ellis and Mark Able, were interviewed by Aaron Mesmer from News 14 Carolina at our launch party last night!

Watch the video here: http://bit.ly/9MAo8G

She's a fellow Renaissance soul....

2010-06-23T23:03:00.003-04:00

I just purchased this from Amazon.com thanks to the darling, hilarious and super-sweet Erin (whom I always enjoy talking jewels over wine with). I think we'll have our own creative book club (and this is the wine we'll drink at our meetings.)

I had NO idea...

2010-06-23T21:49:00.000-04:00

that I would look like Violet Beauregarde from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory upon seeing this photo (thank you flowing-royal-blue-silk top...):

Pictured left to right: Diane, Ivy, Drea, Deb, Mandi, Swanky
Photo by: Lucy Parker Photography

But now that I've seen it, this is pretty much what I imagine each of the other ladies in the photo were saying...

Drea: "I will give Lucy my Blue Steele look."

Deb: "Hi! I'm back here!"

Diane: "These women are crazy!"

Ivy: "Please just take the freaking picture. I'm just sayin'..."

Mandi: "I AM Sex and the City, b*tches.

Wish Upon a Wedding Launch Party

2010-06-23T11:12:00.001-04:00

The official LAUNCH PARTY for the Carolinas Chapter of Wish Upon a Wedding is TOMORROW night in Charlotte!

We cannot wait to tell you all about this incredible non-profit organization that grants wedding wishes to terminally ill brides-to-be now in North and South Carolina.

WHO'S INVITED: Anyone! Everyone. All of our friends, family, co-workers, colleagues ... the more the merrier! It's just a party (and WHO doesn't love a party??)

WHERE: The Lounge at Phillips Place, 6706 Phillips Place Court, Suite B, Charlotte, N.C.

TIME: 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

RSVP: ml@melissalamkin.com or 704.644.9001

Food from Nolen Kitchen, Best Impressions Caterers, Eat Here Now, beer from North Carolina's own Lonerider Brewing Co. and music from Split Second Sound. (It's gonna be a serious party — did you get that yet??)

See you there.

Special Event: Jeans & Jewels to benefit the 24 Hours of Booty

2010-06-21T22:25:00.001-04:00

Looking for something fun to do this weekend? Searching for the usual suspects of good food, cocktails and some entertainment? Take it up a notch and add fashion (and handsome men in spandex *wink) and some ridiculously cool silent auction items (autographed, framed photo of Michael Jordan AND Tiger Woods, anyone?) to that list and head to the Carillon Building on Saturday night around 7 p.m. for the Jeans & Jewels event to benefit the Bank of America 24 Hours of Booty team! In the midst of cocktails, silent auction and fun, there will be a fashion show (styled by myself + coordinated with the darling Janet Ervin at 24 HOB) with Wilson as the emcee (so you know it's gonna be fun!)

What: Jeans & Jewels

Where: The Carillon Building, Uptown Charlotte, 227 West Trade Street

When: Saturday, June 26, 7:00 p.m.

How much: $50 (includes cocktails, food, and donation)

BUY TICKETS HERE.

More info: Click here.

So, get your BOOTY uptown on Saturday night ... and yes, that pun was definitely intended.

SwankyDad.

2010-06-20T10:23:00.004-04:00

My dad + I, Summer 2008

Happy Father's Day to one incredibly talented, proud, supportive, loving dad. He's not a big talker (not nearly as social as I am), could care less about fashion (he likes his blue jeans + tee shirts) loves his toys (his tractor, his motorcycles — yes, two of them— and his boat.) He's the smartest man I know, is so very creative and handy, loves my mother more than anything in the world and always tells me how much he loves me ... and that's more than enough for me.

Thank you daddy for always supporting me, always loving me and for being exactly the way you are. The best gift you've given me as a father? Loving mom more than anything in the world, always being faithful to her and giving her the world. I can only hope to find someone that loves and appreciates me one day as much as you do mom!** I hope you have a FANTASTIC Father's Day!!

Love always,
"Monkey"

**When I said this to my dad, his response: "Well, if you don't just stay single."
Uhhh, thanks Dad, pretty sure that's my only option, "if I don't". But we're trying to change that!!

I LOVE this...

2010-06-15T21:17:00.002-04:00

And I "borrowed" it from here.

Sick as a dog. (Pun definitely intended.)

2010-06-15T21:09:00.003-04:00

Look at this precious little face ... I hate that I can't just make it all better for her.

Swankypooch was quite sick all afternoon and I've been her little nurse. Man, I tell ya ... it's days/moments like this that makes me wonder if I'm gonna be an acceptable mother. My ability to clean up her puke (ew, I hate that word) was waning as the afternoon went on ...

But, she had dinner and it's stayed down for three hours so hopefully we're all good and in the clear and will get some sleep tonight! :)

Back off Bradley, ladies.

2010-06-15T16:39:00.004-04:00

Soooo... Bradley Cooper was in town over Memorial Day weekend (while I was out of town — the nerve!) and two of my friends (hmph, I can hardly call them friends now...) got photos with him. And TOUCHED him. TOUCHED BC. (I love that Jarrod is so amused at my outrage...)

Out and About: Carolina Wedding Design's SATC 2: Premier Party

2010-06-15T15:24:00.003-04:00

Photo by: Lucy Parker Photography
Me + Drea Cunningham

Just stumbled across some pics of myself and a few of my faves (Ivy Robinson, Drea Cunningham, Heather + Laura from Hayden Olivia Bridal, Debra Hall, Whitney + Teresa from The Pink Hanger, Diane + Vinny Esposito from Split Second Sound ... + many more) on the Carolina Wedding Design Blog here.

Photo by: Lucy Parker Photography

Spotted: Carolina Wedding Design's SATC 2: Premiere Party

2010-06-15T15:12:00.002-04:00

Thanks to Dreamlight Films!

Someone I'd like to meet....

2010-06-14T15:32:00.003-04:00

Tiffany Hughes of Lucky Photography.

Something (well a few parts) in her About Me spoke to me in that gives-you-chill-bumps-because-you-can-relate-so-well way — these parts I've highlighted in bold...

First of all, neither my last name, nor my maiden name is Lucky. Lucky is quite contradictory to my real life. I am not lucky. I am always the one to get the last square of toilet paper on the roll. Always. And to tell you the truth, I don't believe in luck a whole lot. I think that luck is that moment in time when you become what you were meant to be and you breathe in and relish the moment. And even then, you don't become lucky, you become one of the lucky ones. Which is just what I am.

I am a pharmacist. I graduated from Auburn University and would dress in orange and blue every day if I could. Check out Toomer's Corner in the background photo...ahhh Auburn. My husband is the biggest Alabama fan in the world. Really. Drives me nuts. Love was blind way back then. Now, it's just really irritating.

I live in Elmore County. For those of you from another state who aren't familiar with Elmore, you're better off. I only live one mile away from Prattville, which is where I was born and raised. It's kinda like the division between Mexcio and the US. They don't speak the same language, they drive funny, and although there is no border crossing, there should be.

My children make my world turn. Sometimes out of control, but it's still turning, nonetheless. I love my son's laugh and his frizzy hair. I love my little girl's curl that hangs in her eye. I love my son's giggle and his big front tooth that's just breaking through.

I have a really bad southern accent. Not that it's bad to have one of those, it's just that I sound like I could be an actor on "Deliverance". And I have a lisp. What a combo.

I miss my daddy who's been gone 9 years. I wish he could meet my babies. I never met my real father until I was 27 years old. And that was one time too many. He gave me the black hair and blue eyes and kidney stones. But my daddy (my granddaddy) gave me everything he had. I never thanked him for it, because I never had to. I wish I had.
One day, I will live at the beach and I will tan and not worry about what too much sun can do. And I will have the guts to eat a boiled crawfish. Still afraid I'd suck the eyeballs right on out. Uggg...get chills just thinking about it.

I love New Orleans. We were engaged there and married there. Just got back this past weekend as a matter of fact. That town has just wrapped around my heart like ivy around the wrought iron down there.

I learned so much from my mama. She is 78 years old and everyday I see something more amazing in her than I saw the day before. She is the one that gave me my faith, my stubborness, and my life.

My husband...I almost lost him on Christmas Day to a brain hemorrhage this past year. And I guess as the saying goes, you never know what you have until you lose it. Thanks to God, I didn't lose it, but I came close enough and never want to go there again.

The one thing that guides my whole life is my faith in God. Sure, I don't understand why things happen, and I always pray that either the circumstances will change or I will. And the latter is the one that always happens. And there has never been a time when He's changed me that it didn't work out for the best.

I love thai food, fabric, and paper. In fact the lady at the local Thai restaurant named my first child. I have 5 bolts of fabric in my closet now. And paper? I am tempted to buy a letterpress so that I can design my own invitations, but once I come to my senses, the urge goes away.

My fave movie, EVER, is "Remember the Titans". I've watched it at least a million times, and it's new every time.

I hate WalMart.

On TV: Father's Day Gift Ideas

2010-06-14T12:35:00.002-04:00

I spent some time with Kristen Miranda at WBTV on Saturday morning to talk about some Father's Day gift ideas from some of the stores in Charlotte.

Watch the video here or by clicking on the image below.

If you'd like more info on some of the items discussed, leave a comment or shoot me an email ml@melissalamkin.com and I'll get that to you!

Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte's Girls Night Out Event

2010-06-14T12:27:00.003-04:00

I had the incredible pleasure of heading up the Fashion Show committee for this first year event for the Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte. My labor of love for almost six months — I secured retail partners and sponsorships, cast all the runway models {thank you Wilhelmena/Evolution in Charlotte + my friends Dave Kennedy, Ervin Ledbetter and Anne Marie Rhodes} styled all 60 runway looks, produced the fashion show + chose set design (don't you love those chandeliers?!).

The other four ladies responsible for putting on such a fabulous event with me were (above, pictured left to right): Ari Harris {Community Director for RMH of C}, myself, Melissa Klinberg {Silent Auction Committee Chair}, Michele Boisvert + Debra Hall {Event Design + Logistics Committee Co-Chairs}.

In our first year event, we raised a net profit of $22,059 for the Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte — enough to cover 259 nights of operating expenses at the home that is currently under construction. The support we received from our guests, the retailers, sponsors and friends and family was incredible and I personally THANK YOU and know we couldn't have done it without them!

I cannot rave enough about how awesome my dear Andrea Sylvia is: she kept me in-check, sane and laughing the entire week and is the best set of second eyes I've ever had. Julie Hough, the most organized friend I have, was incredible to step in and help me produce the show and run things backstage while I was out front. You TWO are incredible and I really can't THANK YOU enough either.

The hair team from Salon Vivace {Larry Webb, Andrea Early-McNeely and Jennifer Arnold}, along with my darling mother {Robin} were fast and fabulous. Heather Bryson of the Look (who pretty much rocked out all 12 model's make-up solo) did an amazing job, too. Thank you all for lending your time and talents to such a great event.

The models {Amy, Kristan, Anna, Gemma, Kacey, Alyse, Dave, Brittany, D.J., Darcie, Anne-Marie, Yandrick and Ervin} ... rocked. it. out. on the runway! And my committee members and volunteers — way to go backstage! It was a flawless, fluid event with no major hiccups and it's a big THANKS to you.

Christopher Frederick {a.k.a. Brotha' Fred of 96.1 The Beat} was our Master of Ceremonies (left) and Diane and Vinnie Esposito of Split Second Sound were on-hand for the music. Vinnie and I worked together to put the music together for the runway show — he's incredible and tons of fun to work with!

Oh, and thank you Best Impressions Caterers for our delicious, delicious food.

Now some of my favorite shots from the runway!

Again, a huge THANK YOU to all who were involved in this fabulous event. It was probably the best night of my life {if not most important so far} and I'm so blessed to have been such a big part of it.

Tree 1, Art Studio 0.

2010-06-14T11:02:00.006-04:00

A bit of a nasty storm blew threw Charlotte yesterday afternoon ... that storm blew over a tree that fell on top of my friend Meredith's parents art studio in their backyard in Myers Park.

And of course, this is the text message conversation between the two of us when she sent me a photo:

Swanky: "Oh my goodness. Is everyone okay?"
Meredith: "Yeah. My mom is getting a little dramatic but I think it's kind-of cool. Hopefully the firemen are cute."
Swanky: "Oh, firemen?! Should I come help with the rescue efforts?"
Meredith: "Bahaha. I think I'll ask one of them for mouth-to-mouth."
Swanky: "Hilarious. Do it."
Meredith: "Yep. One of the firemen is smoking hot. Pun intended."

I'm Just Sayin'... May/June 2010

2010-06-11T08:16:00.002-04:00

Quite possibly the most-talked about bit on SwankyPeach, "I'm Just Sayin' " as it almost always entertains. Alright ya'll — we're gonna start making this fun— Leave a comment below with your favorite IJS quote and I'll pick a winner for a surprise prize... and whoever said the fave quote of the commenter that wins gets a prize too. Got it? Annnnd go...

“I'm on the way to get a pedicure with a half bottle of champagne in hand. Well, not the bottle literally — I put in a Starbucks coffee to-go cup. Why do I feel like a closet alcoholic all of a sudden?”

“I love a good beach tan. For starters it means I've been at the beach.”

"Me and Kelsey found you a cute boy. Anthony, an MBA from U.N.C. That's all you need to know."

"Some rent-a-cop on a bike tried to take my wine. He clearly doesn't know who he's messing with."

"Three white girls rapping? I couldn't think of a better form of entertainment."

“She told me you had an infection. Is that better?”

"I get distracted by this good looking guy I always see in Starbucks."

“Have you talked to him or do you just stalk him from afar?”

“I had a conversation with [name redacted] about sex that ended with me saying, 'Well you get what you get. Don't pitch a fit.' "

“I need a new pillow.”
“You need a more firm pillow?”
“Well, I need a more firm a lot of things.”

“I just have a huge affinity for hot dogs. I could eat them every day.”

“What was in that shot?”
“Orange vodka, pineapple, a shot of Sprite and peach schnapps.”
“That's Sprite is gonna get me later.”
“The Sprite?”

"I'm a single guy who lives with his brother, sister-in-law, a niece and two nephews. You win."

“You know what's funny?”
“That that only took two seconds.”

“Something with wings just touched me. Big wings.”
“Well, it wasn't a pelican.”

“I'm gonna regret that.”

“I know me sitting like this looks gross but I'm not getting any sun between my legs so I have to.”

“Let's face it - your connection to booty is through me.”

“Talk about loose screws? I might have a few but he has a lot!”

“All I know is I had chocolate covered bacon.”
“I had chocolate covered life.”

“Let me get a little more drunk.”

“Don't you have Catholics in the States?”
“Yeah but they're not that Catholic.”

“Anything goes in the Big Apple, baby. Just trying to avoid big wind gusts on the subway...”

“I love being pimped, especially when you're the p-i-m-p in question.”

"Some people like Facebook, others like fireworks.”

“If you just took your pants off then you'd fit right in.”

“I'm trying to become more domestic in case anyone wants to marry me or so I can feed my children one day.”

“What is that in my pants?”
“Oh that's a fun game.”

"My doctor graduated from U.N.C. med school the year I was born."
“So you're saying she's seen a lot of ‘kitties.’ ”

“Are you blogging about me? 'Cause people would read it. I am Googleable.”

“No ma’am. I'm as single as the number one.”

I'm here ... and there

2010-06-10T20:52:00.002-04:00

So, I've got this snazzy new website (thanks to Ray, Alisa and Lydia over at Cuberis!) with all my what-I-like-to-call-business stuff ... clips, photos from shoots and events I've styled and produced, information about my creative services (social media, public relations, events and consulting) and that lovely about me page (that seriously took me a bajillion years to write - I hate writing about myself!) and then I've got the older kid SwankyPeach. She's been around for about five years now, she's traveled all over the place, she's laughed, thought she was loving, lost, listened and learned. SwankyPeach is for fun going forward and my personal stuff. This blog, I'll used to update you on what I'm working on, press, ideas, etc. I highly suggest (if you know what's best for you, duh) to subscribe via RSS (or email) to both. Either way - all posts on melissalamkin.com/blog will automatically post to SwankyPeach ... so technically you can read both there. But I still need you to stop by here, too!

That is all.

The place I'm in ...

2010-06-10T20:41:00.003-04:00

Right now is hard to explain but it has required me to trust entirely, completely and wholeheartedly in my Father, to let go of my control (and Type-A tendencies) of some important aspects of my life and with Faith believe that His plan is the best. His plan is 1,000 times better than any I could dream up for myself and His plan is perfect.

Do I like it here? Absolutely not. Am I making the best of it? You bet. Am I learning every day? 100 percent. Because I know that it's worth it to let him handle such things (especially matters of the heart) and ultimately His plan for my life.